I totally believe language is a great tool in expressing yourself. They way every individual expresses themselves is a reflection of their true self. There are many times where I have had moments realizing the true power of language. Not only have I recognized it through my own actions, but the people around me. Language is very powerful and in most of the cases in which I have noticed that is when people try expressing themselves verbally and through body language. Body language is also a powerful form of language and I have realized that when I get upset, irritated, or mad at someone or something.
The power of language is not just speaking it verbally. Expressing yourself is not just verbal but it is also your body language. We can say so much to one person without even opening up our mouths to speak. The way you display your body language can show a person what you are feeling, thinking, and much more. For example, I have picked up some of my mom’s qualities like when she gets mad she does not talk about it with the person, she uses her body language to show that person she is upset. So, when I get mad at someone I do not talk to them about the situation, I usually leave it as is but show the person I am upset using my body language. I will either be unusually quiet, be a little rougher with things (ie. Slam down papers, shut doors hard, etc.), and usually I give facial expressions. You can tell I am upset or mad just by the way I am presenting myself.
I have realized that language is powerful when you are dealing with your problems and trying to express yourself. When you are in a relationship of any kind I think that is when language is most powerful tool in order for it to be a good relationship. The relationships you have with people are based upon how you act towards them, for example, if you are loyal, trustworthy, fun, etc. Being able to effectively communicate with your family, friends, companions, coworkers, and others is important. Another example of where I realized communication and language is powerful is while playing soccer. I am a captain of the college soccer team and my job is to effectively communicate to the girls what the coach needs from them. I have to do this in a way that is not mean and harsh but authoritative and understanding. I need to find the balance when communicating to my team that I come across as their friend, but I do need them to listen to me. I do not need to just apply that balance to my role and captain, but also in my social life as well. I need to balance my emotions when talking to certain people and my tone when talking about certain things. All in all, language is the most powerful tool in your relationships and being aware of what you say and how you present your body language is important.
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I particularly like what you said about language being a great tool in expressing yourself, and that “They way every individual expresses themselves is a reflection of their true self”. It made me imagine trying to express myself without language, and I found it would be nearly impossible, and somewhat frustrating. I also agree with you that non-verbal language plays a large role in communication. I often find myself using lots of non-verbal communication to express whatever is on my mind, and too often I use it more negatively than positively. Similarly to you, it is easy to tell my mood by the way I am presenting myself. I find it very interesting that you mentioned how important communication is for you in soccer, and how important it is that your team actually listens to you. I know from experience how important effective use of language and communication is in athletics. In fact in volleyball, a large part of winning actually involves how effectively our team can communicate with each other both verbally, and non-verbally. In fact, sometimes we actually have practices dedicated to communication. You have some great insights on the importance of language and communication and I really enjoyed reading your blog!
ReplyDeleteVery interesting angle on language! I had never though of body language during this assignment! Now that you mentioned it I realize how powerful body language is. So much can be said through the movement of our bodies toward someone. Even, as you said, facial expressions can tell so much about someone or a situation. I think of a poker player when you talk about facial expressions. Think of how much is being said through the small movements on their face. Although, one not versed in the art of reading such language will just see movement, which is why, for me body language is difficult to decipher! I think it could be important to some people who are in the field of reading people, i.e. police, poker player, or even playing sports to learn to read facial expressions and body language even better. Being well versed in all types of language and ways to communicate will only strengthen your ability relate to others.
ReplyDeleteI also like how you added personal relationships into the mix. I agree with you that language and communication is a large part of making any relationship successful. The relationship could be romantic, business, friendly, or competitive; either way communication and an understanding of language is key to making that relationship work. Very well done, looking forward to reading more from you!